Ethically Choosing a Secrets Policy for Couples Counseling with Liz Polinsky
Nov
1
1:00 PM13:00

Ethically Choosing a Secrets Policy for Couples Counseling with Liz Polinsky

Friday, November 1, 2024 - 1pm-4:45pm

THIS WEBINAR WILL BE RECORDED. HOWEVER, ABOUT 1/3 OF IT WILL BE SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION THAT WILL NOT BE INCLUDED IN THE RECORDING.

In this workshop, we will discuss 4 types of secrets policies for couples counseling, the pros and cons of each type, and how each might handle ethical dilemmas in couples counseling. We will review the ethical codes from psychology, counseling, social work, and marriage and family therapy to identify ethical principles related to secrets policies for couples counseling. Through small group discussions, participants will discuss case examples and how different secrets policies may respond to the case examples differently. Additionally, we will discuss examples of implementing a secrets policy, both in practice as wella s through example intake paperwork. 

Learning Objectives

  • Ethical principles related to secrets policies in couples therapy

  • 4 common types of secrets policies 

  • How to implement a chosen secrets policy 

  • Considerations for choosing a secrets policy for couples therapy in your own practice 

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Going Deeper with Pursuers George Faller, LMFT (virtual)
Mar
1
1:00 PM13:00

Going Deeper with Pursuers George Faller, LMFT (virtual)

Friday, March 1, 2024: 1pm-4:45pm (virtual)

recording will be available for 2 weeks after the event

Renew your confidence by getting help in the areas where you lose focus and get lost in reactivity and misattunement. Learn multiple strategies to make explicit, expand and work through the blocks we all experience. Go deeper with George as he breaks down the moment-to-moment decisions that inform the pursuer softening process so you can immediately incorporate powerful, proven techniques into your own work. Through video clips, experiential activities and vibrant dialogue, we will learn how to freshen up, better attune, and refine our skills. And we will have fun! Join us and come away inspired and more fully engaged in your own work with couples and families.

Learning Objectives

  • Identify three key assumptions of attachment theory as it applies to adult relationships

  • Identify ten common therapeutic impasses in couple treatment and how to address them

  • Implement three interventions in clinical exercises and case examples

  • Describe the functions of protective strategies that create negative cycles

  • Articulate three key interventions to help clients reprocess emotional responses and reduce reactivity

  • Define the clinical skills associated with emotional resonance and hone skills in role play

  • Identify key components to Pursuer Softening

  • Describe three specific types of proximity-seeking presentations

  • Identify the positive cycle of responsiveness to replace reactivity

This workshop will be eligible for 3.25 CEs which can be purchased separately here.

Registration Fee: $95

EFT-ME Members: $75

Students: $45

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Working with Withdrawers in EFT with Kathryn Rheem, Ed.D., LMFT
Oct
13
2:00 PM14:00

Working with Withdrawers in EFT with Kathryn Rheem, Ed.D., LMFT

Understanding the emotional inner workings of withdrawers can be challenging for therapists. This course will present interventions for working with withdrawers and establishing emotional safety, with an additional focus on the key change event of withdrawer re-engagement in Stage Two of EFT.  Dr. Rheem will provide understanding of the inner world of withdrawers, their view of self, and the ways their relational behaviors protect them and their relationship with their partner. She will discuss and demonstrate how to create a pace and tone in the therapy room that communicates safety and enables clients to take the risks of engaging with emotions they’ve long avoided.

Learning Objectives

  • You will learn the most effective interventions when working with withdrawers.

  • You will learn about the inner emotional world of withdrawers.

  • You will learn how to assess readiness for Stage 2 work.

  • You will learn how to deepen and stay with emotion when working with withdrawers.

  • You will learn about the Stage 2 change event for withdrawers.

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Move 1: Laying a Foundation for a More Present Embodied Tango
May
12
2:00 PM14:00

Move 1: Laying a Foundation for a More Present Embodied Tango

Move 1: Laying a Foundation for a More Present Embodied Tango with Sharon Chatkupt Lee, Psy.D
from $45.00

In this course, we will look at how to set up tangos in your EFT that will help you to be more present, more embodied and to capture more complexity. Sharon Chatkupt Lee notes “from many hundreds of hours of supervision, I can see how people get caught in thinking that if only they could get one partner to be vulnerable then the model would "work". We are facing so much complexity when we work with couples, this approach doesn't give us a strong enough foundation to handle all of what people bring into the room.”

In this course we will look at an approach to your tango work that will help you work more in the present moment and be more strategic. We will talk about and learn the difference between move 1 between and within as well as the 10000 foot view. We will look at how to address context, such as race, gender and power dynamics in couples relationships as a part of your move 1. Move 1 is where people truly begin to own their part of the cycle which is a pivotal moment in the progress of the relational therapy. We will learn to name what is happening in the dynamic in a way that is both kind and direct.

From attachment theory, neuroscience and polyvagal theory, we know that our internal state really matters in terms of how we impact our clients and shape our sessions. How can we be more in a flow state where we are in our own creative selves, present and attuned. When we think we have to do EFT a certain way or get it right, that shifts our state out of flow and into our left brains. This limits our effectiveness. This approach to using the tango helps us be more right brained in our work and more alive in our selves.

Learning Objectives

  • You will learn about the different layers to move 1; the within, between and 10,000 ft view

  • You will learn about how to help people own their part in the model. 

  • You will learn about choosing powerful handles to deepen your tango

  • You will learn about working with power, race, context, gender and sexuality in your move 1

  • You will learn about how to focus your work in a way that will be more likely to produce growth and change for your couple. 

This will be Sharon’s last workshop before her year-long sabbatical!

This workshop is eligible for 3.25 CEs, which may be purchased separately.

Registration Fee: $95

EFT-Members: $75

Students: $45

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Jan
20
2:00 PM14:00

Transforming Trauma with Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFCT)

WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION:  

In her recent book, Attachment Theory in Practice (c. 2019), Dr. Sue Johnson notes two key implications of attachment science for clinical practice.  That is, “harnessing the power of emotion within the client is the most potent way to promote change” and “change is inherently interpersonal, sculpted by the emotional messages that occur in dialogue with another” (Johnson, 2019, p. 25).  Recognizing that the relationship can be a key resource in healing trauma (when one or both partners is struggling with the impacts of trauma), this training will focus on how to work relationally with couples to heal the potentially pervasive and deleterious impacts of personal trauma.  Relationship trauma (i.e., attachment injuries/betrayals of trust) and how to address such injuries with the Attachment Injury Resolution Model (AIRM) also will be reviewed. 

With a clear roadmap and on-target interventions, EFT is an empirically validated treatment approach that meets the gold standard set out by bodies such as the American Psychological Association (APA) and has been shown to be effective in assisting couples in both addressing trauma and improving their relationship functioning.  In this training, participants will gain practitioner relevant insight into assessment, case conceptualization and treatment planning and the interventions that are used to transform couples both personally and relationally, quieting the echoes of trauma, and increasing resilience to future stress and/or trauma.

In this training, you will :

  1. learn a brief overview of the EFT model

  2. focus on assessment, case conceptualization and treatment planning in couple therapy when one or both partners is struggling with the echoes of trauma

  3. learn how to work with emotion with a focus on the intervention central to EFT - the Tango - with attention to pacing (both within and between sessions) and building on momentum throughout the process of therapy

  4. be guided through the three-stage treatment process, with a focus on the three key change events (stabilization/de-escalation, withdrawer engagement and pursuer softening) and with the goal of identifying key markers within the roadmap

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Oct
14
2:00 PM14:00

WHERE DO I START: CLINICAL INTERVENTIONS FOR THE 4TH SESSION IN EFT COUPLES THERAPY

Theresa Cohen, LICSW, CGP

Friday, October 14, 2022,  2:00 to 5:00pm

DESCRIPTION:

Emotionally Focused Therapists often receive extensive instructions about how to create an alliance and conduct the assessment phase of EFT couple’s therapy (sessions 1-3).  But after creating safety, meeting with the couple jointly, and doing the individual sessions with each partner,  many EFT therapists feel less confident about where to start on the “4th session”.  This workshop offers an example of how to begin EFT therapy once the assessment phase is complete.  Learn how to introduce the concept of the negative cycle and work experientially with couples to illustrate how they impact each other.

OBJECTIVES:

This webinar is designed to provide a structured framework for assembling, tracking, and working experientially with the negative cycle in the 4th session of an EFT couples therapy session.

Attendees will:

1.    Review the therapeutic tasks of the Assessment Phase of EFT couple’s therapy and how to prepare couples for their 4th session.

2.    Identify the therapeutic goals post-assessment-phase and learn how different attachment styles can benefit from a structured 4th session.

3.    Learn in-session exercises for couples to identify the different components of their negative cycle and give them shared vocabulary to understand their attachment distress.

4. Increase understanding on how to work experientially with the negative cycle when it becomes alive in the therapy room during the 4th session.

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Jun
17
3:00 PM15:00

June 17th Masterclass (3PM EST)

Broken Bonds: Using EFT to rebuild connection After Ruptures with Clare Rosoman

Clinical Psychologist & Founding Co-Director of ACEFT; ICEEFT Certified Trainer, EFT Couples Therapist, and Supervisor

Clare is a clinical psychologist and co-founder of the Australian Centre for EFT (ACEFT) and director of the Brisbane Centre for Attachment and Relationships. With over 23 years’ experience in public, private and educational settings, Clare finds working within the EFT framework to be the most satisfying and rewarding work of her career. Clare has spoken nationally and internationally on EFT and is happiest when inspiring other therapists in the EFT model. Clare is the author of two resource books for therapists and a soon to be released book on recovery from relationship loss, An Emotionally Focused Guide to Relationship Loss: Life After Love. Clare believes in the power of attachment and connection in all relationships; dyadic, polyamorous, monogamous or consensually non-monogamous and the unique people who make them what they are; hetero, LGBTIQ+, cis, trans, gender non-conforming – all beautiful humans. She is deeply respectful of the cultural context in which people live, love and grow and prioritizes this in her training and in her therapeutic work as she commits to being anti-racist, knowing that this work is always ongoing. Clare is continually inspired by the power of EFT, grateful to Dr Sue Johnson for her vision, and remains committed to sharing this most amazing model of therapy with the world.

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Jan
28
1:30 PM13:30

January 28, 2022 1:30 to 4:45pm

MAXIMIZING CLIENT ENGAGEMENT IN THERAPY: USING EFT SKILLS TO BUILD YOUR IDEAL PRACTICE

LAURA CROSS, LMFT, CERTIFIED EFT THERAPIST AND SUPERVISOR

Fee $79 per person; $59 EFT Maine members; $39 Student Rate

Description:

This workshop will teach you how to use your EFT knowledge and skills to maximize your client’s level of engagement in their therapy experience. You’ll learn why the therapeutic alliance and clinical skill are only two of the many contributors to clients having high levels of engagement or terminating prematurely. Focusing on these skills will allow you to change how you view ‘awkward business conversations’ to begin seeing them as opportunities to gain valuable clinical insight into your clients and their experience. You’ll see examples of how, when done thoughtfully, these conversations can result in a deeper connection and commitment to therapy.

Whether you are struggling to retain clients or your calendar is full, understanding how to maximize your client’s level of engagement will help you enhance their experience, bolster your overall client retention and provide you with the opportunity to do your best work.

Learning objective

  1. List the factors that contribute to client engagement and how they impact your client’s commitment to therapy as well as your experience as a therapist.

  2. Explain how to apply client engagement concepts to client satisfaction assessments in order to identify high and low levels of engagement

  3. Apply client engagement principles to therapeutic leadership interactions in a way that promotes connection and trust.

Laura Cross, LMFT, Certified EFT Therapist and Supervisor

Laura Cross, LMFT

Laura Cross is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified EFT Therapist and Supervisor and owner of a group private practice, Individual and Relationship Therapy Center (IRTC) in Denver, Colorado. Laura is also an AAMFT Approved Supervisor and Practicum Supervisor for the University of Colorado Denver’s Couple and Family Therapy program. Laura and her team focus primarily on serving clients using Emotionally Focused Therapy with individuals, couples, families and all types of relationships. Prior to becoming a therapist, Laura spent 22 years in Washington, DC, specializing in sales and marketing in the medical device industry. During her time in this competitive space, she gained valuable experience working with various types of clients, many with competing and challenging needs. Laura held positions in both sales training and product development, and through this combined experience, Laura learned the critical importance of connecting with, and understanding, the client’s experience in ALL interactions and the profound value of mastering ‘awkward’ conversations in order to maximize each client’s engagement in their therapy journey.

Testimonials from participants

“Laura Cross brings her business background and experience alongside her experience as an EFT therapist and supervisor into our EFT world as she shares how to engage our clients from the first point of contact. Laura’s professional presentation is clear and offers several actionable steps we can employ immediately. Laura warmly welcomes questions and provides focused answers. I highly recommend this workshop.” -Wanda Garner, EFT Therapist and Supervisor


Engagement was so helpful because she takes the EFT Attachment framework and applies it to the entire client journey. She has such a beautiful, clear, and natural ability to teach the material in a concrete, experiential, and compassionate manner. There were a ton of takeaways from this training that I have implemented in my work with clients and it has impacted my overall perspective on some of the business side of things as well. I can't say enough positive things about Laura and her Client Engagement Training!" -Rachel Thomas, MA, LMFT (she/her/hers) Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor


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Making Sense of Relationship Distress: An Introduction to Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)
Sep
24
9:00 AM09:00

Making Sense of Relationship Distress: An Introduction to Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)

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EFT Tango: Flowing with heart and focus through your sessions
Jun
18
2:00 PM14:00

EFT Tango: Flowing with heart and focus through your sessions

Attachment science provides the EFT map to help us therapists show our couples the way home to secure connection. Yet even with the map and EFT steps and stages, it is easy to get lost in the content or turbulence of a single session. In this mini-Masterclass, we will define and practice the five moves of the EFT Tango as a way to feel our way through a session with more focus, ease, and empathy. Led by Rebecca Clark, LMFT.

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Utilizing the Cycle Frame and Attachment Reality to Move from Content to Process in Early EFT Work
Feb
3
12:30 PM12:30

Utilizing the Cycle Frame and Attachment Reality to Move from Content to Process in Early EFT Work

Jim Thomas has over 30 years of clinical and supervisory experience. Jim’s nationally renowned couples therapy intensives draw partners from all across Colorado, the U.S. and Canada. Jim brings a diverse clinical background to his work. Jim’s private practice, Engaging Couples Counseling, is located in Lakewood, CO. He is the Director Emeritus of the Denver Family Institute

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EFT MASTER CLASS: WORKING EXPERIENTIALLY WITH EMOTION
Jan
22
2:00 PM14:00

EFT MASTER CLASS: WORKING EXPERIENTIALLY WITH EMOTION

One of the defining characteristics of EFT is working experientially with emotion. But what does that actually mean and how do we do it? For many therapists, it can be overwhelming to work with highly reactive emotions, such as intense anger or stonewalling silence. Yet when we learn how to assemble affect and honor the function of emotions, we can harness the power of present process interactions to help couples de-escalate, get curious about their cycle, and reshape their attachment bonds.

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EFT Q&A  with Dr. Leanne Campbell, ICEEFT Trainer
Jan
8
4:00 PM16:00

EFT Q&A with Dr. Leanne Campbell, ICEEFT Trainer

In her more than 20 years of practicing EFT, Leanne has been well-regarded for her ability to quickly develop strong therapeutic alliances with clients, and to use that secure base to explore, discover, and share their deeper emotional experiences in ways that shift them from distressing cycles of interaction to new levels of closeness and understanding. In addition to focusing on EFT therapy within her own clinical practice, Leanne offers training and clinical supervision in EFT to mental health professionals both locally and abroad, and has been involved in the development of a variety of training materials, including DVDs.

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Hold Me Tight® Weekend Workshop
Sep
26
to Sep 27

Hold Me Tight® Weekend Workshop

  • Psychology Specialists of Maine (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

Hold Me Tight® is an educational relationship enhancement workshop based on the book by Dr. Sue Johnson, Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. The structured curriculum used in this workshop is based on the theory and practice of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT). EFT is a systematic approach that aims to reduce relationship distress and help couples create trust and intimacy. In this private weekend workshop, you will learn how to identify and change the negative cycles that get in the way of intimacy, make sense of emotions, and restore trust and safety in your relationship.

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Created for Connection: The Hold Me Tight® Program for Christian Couples
Mar
27
to Mar 28

Created for Connection: The Hold Me Tight® Program for Christian Couples

  • First Baptist Church of Freeport (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

ALL couples, including loving Christian husband and wives, get disconnected at times. Created for Connection: The Hold Me Tight ® Program for Christian Couples is an engaging marriage workshop based on a biblical worldview and research-based attachment science. You will learn how to understand and improve your relationship through presentations by the workshop leaders, private exercises, and conversations with your partner, and by watching video demonstrations of other couples.

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